Mind Games Emotionally Manipulative Tactics Partners Use to Control Relationships and Force the Upper Hand (Audible Audio Edition) Pamela Kole Rebekah Amber Clark Books
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Do you feel like you have to walk on eggshells around your partner? Or that the wrong phrase might set them off? Are you unhappy in your relationship, but can't bear to pull yourself away from it? Do you feel inadequate and sometimes deserving of the treatment you get? Recognize that your partner is your manipulator and abuser - don't allow them to force the upper hand. Mind Games uncovers a host of underhanded, sneaky, and malicious emotional manipulation tactics that manipulators and abusers use to beat you down and control you. We might all be able to recognize blatant abuse, but when we're emotionally invested, it's tough to see the little signs that are in front of our faces sometimes. They'll lead to you feeling worthless and vulnerable, making it almost impossible to leave your situation.
In this book, I identify many common tactics that you may be intimately and sadly familiar with, complete with real life examples for each to help you identify them in your daily life. What emotionally manipulative tactics will you learn to identify and stop? *
- Gaslighting and telling you that your concern is an overreaction, or quite simply wrong
- How the silent treatment is used as punishment and forces compliance
- Playing the victim and how it transforms your issues into guilt and pity
- Your abuser's time machine and how they use it to their advantage
More importantly
- An analysis of the psychology behind why your partner acts the way they do...and why you stay
- Guidelines for how to deal with a partner that is your manipulator and abuser
- Why your abuser loves controlling you, not necessarily you
Emotional manipulation tactics are still abuse, even if there are no physical signs. Gain the knowledge and subsequent courage you need to leave your situation and find true happiness, not someone else's definition of it. Learn to detect when your abuser is not acting in your best interest, and exactly how they make you believe that they are.
Mind Games Emotionally Manipulative Tactics Partners Use to Control Relationships and Force the Upper Hand (Audible Audio Edition) Pamela Kole Rebekah Amber Clark Books
A highly useful book which raises consciousness significantly and quickly regarding abusive relationships. I am 72 and have beenin abusive work, church and "love" relationships most of my life and did not know it. Now I do and have the tools to see what is going on and to counter the attempts at control.
Life changing book.
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Mind Games Emotionally Manipulative Tactics Partners Use to Control Relationships and Force the Upper Hand (Audible Audio Edition) Pamela Kole Rebekah Amber Clark Books Reviews
Excellent book that goes straight to the point and the heart of the matter. Think you are being emotionally manipulated? Read this book and you will know for sure whether or not it is your mind or someone else that is playing tricks on you. I am guessing that if you pick this book out, it is likely someone else. This book is an excellent source for getting to know the signs so you can remedy the problem.
Needs an editor, there are a lot of errors as previously reported in other reviews. I found it hard to keep reading at times because of these errors. It reminded me of a rough draft from one of my journal entries. I personally don't believe in trying to make things work with an abuser. However, some of the advice for dealing with the abuser was familiar to how to cope with a child's father after you left him, after an abusive relationship. Although, there is more to it. I felt as those some of the tactics discussed were repeated, perhaps with slightly different examples. The examples however are not early examples of the subtle abuse that generally occur and therefore is not useful in detecting a negative relationship early on. Detecting the subtle signs early on can allow a woman to decide a relationship is not truly worth continuing to pursue. This book is a good read for any woman that is currently in or on the edge of leaving an abusive relationship. They would relate the most to the examples given and it may give them the strength they need to walk away.
The author provides really defined examples and explanations of abusive behavior - for anyone needing and looking for change because you feel like you can't breath in your relationship and that you can't remember the you that existed before your relationship, this book is definitely for you. Be forewarned, however, the examples are a bit terrifying when and how frequently they "hit home". Regardless, this book is recommended for anyone who feels like they have nothing left to give...this book will help you understand why. 5 stars for being an obtainable read for anyone who is in a place where they have found and need to read this.
I didn't realize I was in an abusive relationship until I read this book. I've always been one of those women who swore she'd never be in "that type of a relationship." But here I am and thankfully I now recognize it. If you feel unhappiness in your current relationship, this is a must read. Opened my eyes and now I can heal & move forward. No one deserves to be treated badly. I recommend this book highly.
The author has done a great job of breaking emotional manipulation down to the core components of what makes it up. This is the kind of thing that people should learn before they go into their first relationship, but it's never taught anywhere which is a shame.
It seems that the author has had some training in psychology and such because of how she analyzes behavior. It's very refreshing and interesting to read about.
I do think that women in particular are at risk of this kind of behavior, just like the author herself, so it would benefit quite a few women to read this and really realize what is happening in their relationships. I recognized a few things that my exes have done, and I feel a bit foolish in hindsight for letting it affect me.
I have the deepest respect for all my comrades who have survived the emotional abuse of narcissist or anyone with a Class B disorder. I I admire your courage in sharing your story, and applaud you putting pen to paper in what I am sure was part of your journey to a good life. Keep fighting the good fight, and thank you for sharing your story.
I do need to be respectfully critical of this book and advice, which reminded me of my own early thoughts when beginning to understand and process this cunning and unique abuse. There is too much hope for the abuser present, and what seems to be a fledgling difficulty to break through that awful cognitive dissonance where even though everything is clicking at a soul-level, there are still those regular moments of stopping and thinking "Really? Surely this can't actually be real." I know that intimately but also that yes, it is terrifyingly real.
The abuser can't be "beat" with simple tricks, and we will never win by attempting to care less because we care, we're empathetic, we love deeply, and we are genuine for doing those things. The abuser doesn't feel remorse, and whether intentionally or not will never be out-waited by gentle souls such as us because they don't feel an iota of guilt, nor any growing anxiety, guilt, or discomfort when disconnected from other people.
The examples given are representative of an abuser in the final, brief phase of abuse before moving on. They aren't conscerned with subtelty at that point, have already been sleeping/dating someone else for weeks/months, and most likely are already in a relationship. At this point the damage has already been done to the victim and it no longer matters whether we realize it or not. When I started recognizing the kinds of things used as examples in this book, it was far too late to be saved from the damage done by this kind of abuse. My journey of years towards recovery had already been set in stone.
There are some really great books out there, both from professionals and survivors. Please read around and protect yourself. Poor advice will only make it worse.
A highly useful book which raises consciousness significantly and quickly regarding abusive relationships. I am 72 and have been
in abusive work, church and "love" relationships most of my life and did not know it. Now I do and have the tools to see what is going on and to counter the attempts at control.
Life changing book.
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